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Safety

You control your story. These tips can help you write it safely.

Chat Confidently — Stay Protected

Our technology keeps scammers away, but only while you’re here.

Deepfakes Change the Rules

Video alone isn’t enough. Use it to connect, then confirm identity another way.

Stay Private, Stay Protected

Sextortion criminals exploit emotional trust. Protect yourself — never send explicit images.

Stay in Social Spaces

Public places with conversation and movement are best for first meetings.

Tell a Friend Beforehand

Give them your date’s name, time, and location for peace of mind.

Keep Your Phone Handy and Charged

It’s your lifeline if you need directions, contact, or help.

Stay Independent in Transit

Never get into a car with your date — meet there instead.

Don’t Feel Obliged

If you don’t want another, say no. Your safety beats social pressure.

Save Private for Later

Stick to public places until you’ve built real trust and comfort.

Be Curious

Ask questions, enjoy answers, and see where the moment takes you.